Why most strippers fail the first year
Its clear that most strippers start off a little shaky, they get to know the “biz” and then become old pros rather quickly at dancing their way into your heart and out of your pocket. I’m not saying they shouldn’t do this… on the contrary – if some cat wants to spend his money at the club drooling over a woman he has no chance with then so be it. More power to the ladies!
One of the best ways to learn how to be the best dancer or cam girl is to simply follow the lead of some of the more experienced women (and men) who know how to move through a room and don’t have their heads clouded with dope or drink. Some of these dancers get in and get out when they can, others either aren’t that lucky or simply don’t know when to quit.
When you get into this line of work, write down what it is you want to get out of it – money is probably the first motivating factor. If so then come up with a number and plan that once you get to that number you leave. There are other ways of looking at the industry and also how some people say its a gateway job to porn – but, IMHO its the person who decides this – not fate.
StripperGuy
December 13th, 2011 at 2:15 pm
I think they fail because they get into drugs and fall for douchebag DJs
Burlesquer
December 18th, 2011 at 12:42 pm
When I first started dancing I was led to believe that there was a ton of money involved. There is, but not when you start out. You have to learn who to trust and how to make payments. You have to pay to dance at some places – I read your book on how to make bigger tips and it is 100% truth
Big Ron
January 30th, 2012 at 7:56 pm
most of them fail because they bring their douche-bag boyfriends to the club. As a bouncer I see it all the time. A girl can start out real strong but weighing them down is their insecure boyfriend who can’t handle other dudes lookin at them or tryin to cop a feel off them. I cant tell you how many times I’ve had to drag their boyfriends out of the club or to break up fights in the lot between some dude who got a lapdance from their girlfriend. I have dated girls at other clubs (never date the ones at my club) and I feel lucky that men are ogling my lady friends – you might get the dance but I get to leave with em at the end of the night.